I had a tough breakup half a year ago, but feel ready to date again and kind of noticed this one girl in one of my uni classes. We didn't really do much with each other, but we got to talking one night at an exhibition and kind of got along quite well. She then told me she's going to her bf's on that weekend.
Anyway. I texted how she's doing and she told me she actually broke up with him. I replied that if she wants to talk or get drunk, I'm available the next few days.
So we then met, went to a bar, had drinks and laughed a lot. We got along really well. We talked about past relationships and just had a good time. During our talk about our exes she actually told me that she mentioned me during the breakup, saying that she and her ex just don't have that sort of banter like we do (based on that one night at the exhibition where we also laughed a lot; the guy's English apparently isn't very good).
We then went to hers where we had dinner and just continued talking. I left at midnight-ish (so about 6h we spent together) and said that it's my turn next. She said she was keen and told me she had a good time. Mind you, this was around 4 days after her breakup.
So I ask if Monday would work her and she didn't reply for 48h and told me she couldn't make it and that she's busy this week. Would be open to do it next week. She instead met her uncle that evening, who she hadn't seen in a long time (valid), and told me something like "blood before bros, sorry!" in a joking manner.
Well, now I'm wondering, as she called me "bro" - am I in the friendzone? My best friend, a girl, told me that I definitely am, as she wouldn't have talked her ex with me and wouldn't have referred to me as a bro otherwise. Her ghosting me for 48h (before our night out she actually replied rather swiftly) also doesn't help. On the other hand, I barely know her (we just met once) and she did make some remarks which have me doubting. So calling me "a friend" seems hasty. I just thought she might be a bit conflicted, in the sense that she actually kind of likes me, but has only been out of her relationship for a week-ish.
Opinions?
Sorry for the long post, it's been a while since I dated :P