So a work related situation..
There's a girl at my work — different shifts but we overlap for shift change & report — who we'll call Allie, and who i've only spoke to her in passing since i started four months ago. A couple weeks ago, she picked up some nights and I had work two shifts with her. The entire time we were chatting, talking about ourselves, laughing, our goals, etc.
She even shared some of her Oreos with me, which was nice, but that wasn't what made me think more about this. For us, we had different rooms we had to cover all night, with patients ranging from independent to total assist. For the most part (98.9 % of the time), I work alone. I'll get assistance if i need it. The two nights i worked with here were different.
It was the first time her and I have worked together but she basically tagged along to every call I had that night, whether it was necessary or not. I did the same for her. Was she being courteous to someone she hasn't worked with before? Maybe. But I heard from my usual coworker that last time they worked together, Alli was always being very bossy and demanding, doing just what she had to do and telling my coworker to do x, y, and z. Same from other people, I heard she isn't very friendly. To me, we had a good time. Showed each other pictures of our pets and even watched some Netflix when we had down time. This is when she told me that I had to move my chair closer to hers if I "wanted to see the picture" OK.
Fast forward to tonight's shift change and she's on the opposite hall. She gave report to my coworker and shes ready to go. As she was about to walk out the door, she turns to me and says "Hi Daria", I stumble and ask how she was and how her dog was (..i'm not sure) and how finals went. She told me she passed and I congratulated her. With an awkward second passing, I told her and the other leaving cooworker to have a good night.
So Era, how do I go about doing this. I do have to text her and ask her if she wants to pick up one of my shifts next week. BUT, her birthday is also this month and we talked about that. Basically, how can I pivot into asking her out for a drink for her birthday? FWIW, I'm putting in my two weeks tonight at my job so we won't be coworker for much longer.
TLDR: Worked two nights with a cute girl at work, so i'm trying to figure out how to text her and ask her out for her birthday which is later this month. i'm quitting said job in two weeks