I love this game, but god does it need some balance fixes. So much shit is just broken.
Every single wife cheats on you. All of them. Like everybody is just fucking everybody, and there's not a single couple out there that's not cheating. Like WTF. They need to tune that down. Happens way too much, and I'm sick of my game getting interrupted all the time because 2 random shits i don't care about fucked and I need to lock the woman up.
And war is just absolutely busted. The AI does 1 of 2 things, they either try to bumrush your capital, and when that doesn't work they just go around randomly siegieng towns, and when you get close they run away. It's like playing goddamn whack a mole. The penalties for losing a battle need to be way harsher, like destroyed completely. Not lose 20% of your soldiers and you keep fucking around. You need to chase an army for years just to destroy them completely.
I couldn't finish a war even though i had 10x the numbers, because even though i sieged every single territory they had, their tiny stacks kept splitting up and sieging random territory in mine, and keeping the score even, or in there favor. I fought them dozens of times and their stacks just did not dissapear.