Heartbreaking if true.There's a tragic element to this that not a lot of people know.
A few days ago someone noticed (in a now deleted) tweet that John Mulaney's wife changed her instagram username to just be "Anna Tendler" instead of "Anna Mulaney" and that she unfollowed him from social media. When people started asking her about it, she deleted her instagram entirely.
It seems his drug abuse destroyed his marriage and now he's finally taking steps to get better. Hoping he pulls through.
Noooooo, that's sad.There's a tragic element to this that not a lot of people know.
A few days ago someone noticed (in a now deleted) tweet that John Mulaney's wife changed her instagram username to just be "Anna Tendler" instead of "Anna Mulaney" and that she unfollowed him from social media. When people started asking her about it, she delted her instagram entirely.
It seems his drug abuse destroyed his marriage and now he's finally taking steps to get better. Hoping he pulls through.
It seems his drug abuse destroyed his marriage and now he's finally taking steps to get better. Hoping he pulls through.
Because I have close friends who have gone from "functional" alcoholics to rehab, lying to themselves and everyone else around them all along the way. I've seen them try to replace one obsession/fixation/addiction with another, and picking up a new job fits that profile.
I wonder how many other people struggling with addiction have relapsed during all this. Doesn't seem like something that's been measured.
Relax. This is a discussion board. We discuss things here.Years of group therapy have taught me not to speculate/diagnose others motives/intentions for their actions. Keep that to yourself.
Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said by me? Does it need to said by me now?
He's been very open about his past struggles with addiction and numerous parts of his acts have revolved around stories of his drinking.Surprised, he acts like he's a straight razor, even has sort of a mid 1900s way of talking during his mostly PG comedy.
I know some people close to this, and have to ask we keep the speculation to a minimum here. Life is hard enough without the prying eyes.There's a tragic element to this that not a lot of people know.
A few days ago someone noticed (in a now deleted) tweet that John Mulaney's wife changed her instagram username to just be "Anna Tendler" instead of "Anna Mulaney" and that she unfollowed him from social media. When people started asking her about it, she delted her instagram entirely.
It seems his drug abuse destroyed his marriage and now he's finally taking steps to get better. Hoping he pulls through.
Surprised, he acts like he's a straight razor, even has sort of a mid 1900s way of talking during his mostly PG comedy.
I heard about this but I don't know if it's possible to know what came first between the two events.There's a tragic element to this that not a lot of people know.
A few days ago someone noticed (in a now deleted) tweet that John Mulaney's wife changed her instagram username to just be "Anna Tendler" instead of "Anna Mulaney" and that she unfollowed him from social media. When people started asking her about it, she delted her instagram entirely.
It seems his drug abuse destroyed his marriage and now he's finally taking steps to get better. Hoping he pulls through.
wish him the absolute best. The way he would talk about his past problems in his material was always kinda ominous in the alluded scope.
Yes, the very sober time period that was the mid 1900s.
Surprised, he acts like he's a straight razor, even has sort of a mid 1900s way of talking during his mostly PG comedy.
It was pretty straightforward. He said he had a big problem with drugs and alcohol.
Comedian must be a very stressful job. How often that SNL alums have substance abuse.
glad to hear that you are toughing it out. You've got this.I love his standup- really funny guy. I'm glad he's seeking the help he needs- this year has been tough on everyone.
I've struggled with alcohol addiction- but sober for 3 years now. The pandemic has been the first time I've contemplated drinking again- so I can see how he would have relapsed given that his normal job isn't something he can lean back on during this time.
Ah, sorry, that was shitty of me to assume. I just hope John gets the help he needs.I know some people close to this, and have to ask we keep the speculation to a minimum here. Life is hard enough without the prying eyes.
There's a tragic element to this that not a lot of people know.
A few days ago someone noticed (in a now deleted) tweet that John Mulaney's wife changed her instagram username to just be "Anna Tendler" instead of "Anna Mulaney" and that she unfollowed him from social media. When people started asking her about it, she delted her instagram entirely.
It seems his drug abuse destroyed his marriage and now he's finally taking steps to get better. Hoping he pulls through.
The previous speculation about Anna changing her last name on Instagram was sadly correct. This might be new thread worthy, but it looks like John and his wife are getting a divorce :(
The decision appears to be coming from John, which is sad to see since he always spoke so highly of her in interviews and podcasts, not to mention she was always a source of funny and endearing material in his stand up.
Wishing the best for both of them and Petunia.
Thanks for sharing. There is no easy path to recovery and, each path is unique.I debated typing this, but after years of talking to people, young and old, who have similar struggles as mine that I help with, I figured I throw something down, just to give an my story and maybe help somebody.
I struggled with mental illness for years. I tried talking to a psychiatrist once, at eighteen, who prescribed me Paxil. I took it, didn't like it, an stopped taking it. From eighteen to 32 I self-medicated and refused to talk about my issues to anybody believing that I was being weak. Textbook toxic masculinity. Men don't hurt, being sad is a weakness, I'm a cry baby, suck it up, blah blah blah.
I won't get into the more bitter details on a message board forum, but I didn't realize or accept I even had an issue until half way to turning 33 I ran into some significant problems, told my parents what I was dealing with, and my dad, who watched my mom go through mental illness issues during earlier years of their marriage, told me "you're coming home and getting help." I was lucky. I had a family to support me, a safe and controlled place to watch what I was doing, short term disability to cover the time off from work, health insurance to cover my psychologist sessions, and my psychologist knew a local psychiatrist that was dedicated to trying different medications and asking details questions over months to properly diagnose what I was dealing with and get me the help I needed.
I don't want to presume anything for anybody's personal struggle except mine and I can say that my addiction to alcohol, legit, could have killed me. It's probably taken years off my life, although my labs are typically good, so who knows. If you're reading this and struggling, it can get better. It's not easy and will take work, but there is a path out besides just going to AA and hoping for the best.
I genuinely worry about how our society treats addiction, because it's different for everybody and I often see the attitude of "just quit." From experience, it's not that easy.
I debated typing this, but after years of talking to people, young and old, who have similar struggles as mine that I help with, I figured I throw something down, just to give an my story and maybe help somebody.
I struggled with mental illness for years. I tried talking to a psychiatrist once, at eighteen, who prescribed me Paxil. I took it, didn't like it, an stopped taking it. From eighteen to 32 I self-medicated and refused to talk about my issues to anybody believing that I was being weak. Textbook toxic masculinity. Men don't hurt, being sad is a weakness, I'm a cry baby, suck it up, blah blah blah.
I won't get into the more bitter details on a message board forum, but I didn't realize or accept I even had an issue until half way to turning 33 I ran into some significant problems, told my parents what I was dealing with, and my dad, who watched my mom go through mental illness issues during earlier years of their marriage, told me "you're coming home and getting help." I was lucky. I had a family to support me, a safe and controlled place to watch what I was doing, short term disability to cover the time off from work, health insurance to cover my psychologist sessions, and my psychologist knew a local psychiatrist that was dedicated to trying different medications and asking details questions over months to properly diagnose what I was dealing with and get me the help I needed.
I don't want to presume anything for anybody's personal struggle except mine and I can say that my addiction to alcohol, legit, could have killed me. It's probably taken years off my life, although my labs are typically good, so who knows. If you're reading this and struggling, it can get better. It's not easy and will take work, but there is a path out besides just going to AA and hoping for the best.
I genuinely worry about how our society treats addiction, because it's different for everybody and I often see the attitude of "just quit." From experience, it's not that easy.
I debated typing this, but after years of talking to people, young and old, who have similar struggles as mine that I help with, I figured I throw something down, just to give an my story and maybe help somebody.
I struggled with mental illness for years. I tried talking to a psychiatrist once, at eighteen, who prescribed me Paxil. I took it, didn't like it, an stopped taking it. From eighteen to 32 I self-medicated and refused to talk about my issues to anybody believing that I was being weak. Textbook toxic masculinity. Men don't hurt, being sad is a weakness, I'm a cry baby, suck it up, blah blah blah.
I won't get into the more bitter details on a message board forum, but I didn't realize or accept I even had an issue until half way to turning 33 I ran into some significant problems, told my parents what I was dealing with, and my dad, who watched my mom go through mental illness issues during earlier years of their marriage, told me "you're coming home and getting help." I was lucky. I had a family to support me, a safe and controlled place to watch what I was doing, short term disability to cover the time off from work, health insurance to cover my psychologist sessions, and my psychologist knew a local psychiatrist that was dedicated to trying different medications and asking details questions over months to properly diagnose what I was dealing with and get me the help I needed.
I don't want to presume anything for anybody's personal struggle except mine and I can say that my addiction to alcohol, legit, could have killed me. It's probably taken years off my life, although my labs are typically good, so who knows. If you're reading this and struggling, it can get better. It's not easy and will take work, but there is a path out besides just going to AA and hoping for the best.
I genuinely worry about how our society treats addiction, because it's different for everybody and I often see the attitude of "just quit." From experience, it's not that easy.