You had a discussion about ovulation but didn't take the time to use protection?
Are you ovulating?
No...
So I can bust in there?
Well...
You had a discussion about ovulation but didn't take the time to use protection?
Same thing happened with me and my wife. Took 1.5 years for it to happen.
She is on the older side, 37, so that reduces the chances too.
No offense, but are you around the same age as the woman you had sex with? If you're at or around 37 years old, there's no reason why you should be crowdsourcing this question to Era.
I would appreciate mature responses, so save all the "congrats on being a father!" posts.
The real answer.Generally the odds are pretty low (15% to 20% on average) and the timing has to be within a few days before ovulation. problem is that ovulation can be all over the map sometimes for lots of reasons.
Generally the odds are pretty low (15% to 20% on average) and the timing has to be within a few days before ovulation. problem is that ovulation can be all over the map sometimes for lots of reasons.
Is she on birth control? If you discussed ovulation, did you discuss Plan B?This was my first sexual experience. I was 34. Yeah yeah, old virgin. Yall can laugh I guess.
I said it reduced the chances based on information I found online. I didnt say it was impossible.
Is she on birth control? If you discussed ovulation, did you discuss Plan B?
Past the prime for baby making. Not "old" in the sense that a full life has been lived.
Is she on birth control?She says plan B isn't safe for her. And she says she isn't worried.
oh boyThis was my first sexual experience. I was 34. Yeah yeah, old virgin. Yall can laugh I guess.
You had a discussion about ovulation but didn't take the time to use protection?
Lol, you should know better than to expect that here. 0-2 on sound judgement buddy.My goal in this thread is to calm my nerves about the whole thing.
I would appreciate mature responses, so save all the "congrats on being a father!" posts.
It's nothing to laugh about, but it was incredibly foolish to have unprotected sex just because it was your first sexual experience. The dude I had sex with for the first time was wearing a condom and it was also his first time. I don't get the reasoning here.This was my first sexual experience. I was 34. Yeah yeah, old virgin. Yall can laugh I guess.
I said it reduced the chances based on information I found online. I didnt say it was impossible.
Wait, people really time ovulation as a means of conctraceptive???wtf
Of course it's not "old". But fertility in women start to plummet drastically after the age of 35. This is fairly well known.
There are honestly so many factors involved that it is really difficult to know, to be quite honest. We started trying for our third when my wife was 37, and it took us awhile to get pregnant. Parts of physiology just mean some people are/aren't more likely to get pregnant not only based on time of the month. Shit's weird. Our first child was after we were married, but wasn't exactly planned.
I know it was stupid but it all happened so fast. She mounted me and just started going.It's nothing to laugh about, but it was incredibly foolish to have unprotected sex just because it was your first sexual experience. The dude I had sex with for the first time was wearing a condom and it was also his first time. I don't get the reasoning here.
That being said, It depends a LOT. Like others have said in this thread, for some people, conceiving is incredibly difficult. For others, it happens the first time they ever have unprotected sex. You might be fine, but there is literally no answer that anyone can give that is 100% certain.
I don't care what age you or anybody else loses your virginity at, nor do I think it's funny. I'm just saying that you and this woman should be talking this out and also involving a doctor if you're truly concerned.This was my first sexual experience. I was 34. Yeah yeah, old virgin. Yall can laugh I guess.
Wait, people really time ovulation as a means of conctraceptive???wtf
Wait, people really time ovulation as a means of conctraceptive???wtf
I only know this because my mom is a mega Pro-Life Catholic, but that's the only kind of "contraception" she thinks isn't a sin more or less.Wait, people really time ovulation as a means of conctraceptive???wtf
This was my first sexual experience. I was 34. Yeah yeah, old virgin. Yall can laugh I guess.
I know it was stupid but it all happened so fast. She mounted me and just started going.