So, I know they have to do it because they have to adhere to the way Breaking Bad was written, but I just want to chime in on how fucking stupid this "You gotta keep your woman ignorant because that's how you keep her safe" trope is. I already know some of you are upset at my phrasing of that, but it's always women that are kept ignorant while men do what they need to do to provide for them, whether they want to or not, and it's always transparent to me that this is just to keep them from influencing the story too much while their male characters do all the important shit.
And the reason I hate this because it is materially not true. Whether we're talking superhero secret identities or this cartel shit or anything, if the villain of the story finds out that the character has this kind of vulnerability, they're not gonna give a shit whether the loved one in questions has any idea of what is really going on. And Mike should know this because when he wasn't willing to change his testimony for Tuco, the Twins showed up and directly threatened his daughter, who obviously doesn't know anything about how her Pop-pop's involvement with the Cartel, and that was back when Mike wasn't even actually involved, he just did Nacho a favor.
So, I just want to make that clear here that Mike is both wrong and being a tool with that line of reasoning, because he's usually portrayed as the most noble of the show's cast of criminals. And as a story device, it suuuuuuucks and I wish writers did it less. In 99% of situations, knowing what the fuck is going on is going to give anybody the best chance of reacting to it the best they can when something goes wrong. That might not be enough to save them, but it gives them the agency to make the best decisions they can, and I 1000000% love and support that when Kim saw something went wrong, she tried to actually do something about it. Keeping her ignorant wouldn't have kept her safe. It might not save her, but she still gets to make decisions about her own fate instead of being confused and helpless because she doesn't know whats going on.