You guys don't even wanna know what her favorite Patti Smith song is.
Underrated post.
You guys don't even wanna know what her favorite Patti Smith song is.
Is there a concrete goal you hope for aside from potentially G checking racially ambiguous POC?
It's undeniably a colloquial term of endearment among minorities (black/latinx) and that reach influences people of other backgrounds. Urban regions were already mentioned as the main "offender" and obviously nothing about that is changing. Do you feel that calling out non-black users of the word perhaps brings you semblance of control?
You say "we" and I know you mean to represent an entire race with that statement but we both know that's far from true.
I mean, what purpose is served by even positing it, then?I didnt say it did. You're making my preference more important to this conversation than I ever did. I never told anyone what they can and cannot say. I only told people that they will have little to no luck telling others what they can and cannot say.
Get your shit straight.
Excuse me?
Did you just insinuate that me telling people I know for a fact aren't black that they can't use the word nigga is me simply G checking them? It's a term of endearment for black people. Other minorities that don't fit that demographic wanting to "get in on the fun" doesn't make it a term of endearment for them any more than white teens who love rap music using it makes it a term of endearment for them.
My guy, fuck off.
I feel that saying poc cant say the n word is a losing battle based on what I've seen living in metropolitan areas. I mentioned my personal preference because I personally choose to never use the word, not only because I never see a use for it, but also as an obvious means of avoiding conflict. I mentioned it because yasuke said it shouldn't ever even be on my lips or something so I figured I'd mention I never say it at all.I mean, what purpose is served by even positing it, then?
It's obvious you're feeling some type of way about this thread, which explains your little flippant posts.
I think her history of goofy comments has a bit to do with it.
You can gatekeep all you want, it's well within your right, but I'm talking about, as you put it, "policing" folks off the strength of a visual impression. What gives you the right to call out, say, a Blake Griffin looking guy who's definitely black and can do/say whatever the fuck he wants? It just goes back to blurred lines and thats why your line of thinking is less and less common in urban metropolitan areas.
Yup.She's a dork with a history of anti-Black sentiment. This was an attention grabbing stunt by said dork. Next infraction we're calling the homegirls up to get some core shaking going.
Comparing a black person telling non-black people not to use the word nigga should be a bannable offense.
What the fuck?
I'm sorry did you just
Gatekeeping... The N-word. I've seen it all.
A black person being accused of gatekeeping the N-word. Amazing.
I feel that saying poc cant say the n word is a losing battle based on what I've seen living in metropolitan areas. I mentioned my personal preference because I personally choose to never use the word, not only because I never see a use for it, but also as an obvious means of avoiding conflict. I mentioned it because yasuke said it shouldn't ever even be on my lips or something so I figured I'd mention I never say it at all.
People can say what they want, that was kind of my original point. People of color will continue to use the word, no matter how black people feel about it. You're the one who turned it into me policing others.
Tell me more about my unspoken "feelings" though, since you know so much about me personally.
It's definitely gatekeeping, perfectly appropriate gatekeeping but gatekeeping nonetheless. There doesn't have to be a negative association with the word in this context.
(not me, just a tweet I saw that puts the word in the context I'm referring to)
It's definitely gatekeeping, perfectly appropriate gatekeeping but gatekeeping nonetheless. There doesn't have to be a negative association with the word in this context.
(not me, just a tweet I saw that puts the word in the context I'm referring to)
Well Jlo did say nigga in that song song in the early 2000s because she and her team forgot to change up the words form the song she stole from Ashanti but ....😏🥴
Well...if you're going to admit you're part of the problem, I guess I'll believe you motherfucker. Also, fuck outta here with the boldedBlame me, cuz I don't give a fuck, and it's time y'all admit you don't either. She's obviously Afro-Latina. Why the fuck would I care? (Disclaimer: I'm from Harlem and have Caribbean/ Afro-Latin blood) This shit is so fake, it's not even funny.
The word has evolved. I dont say the word because I dont believe in it and I'm not a poc but that's aside from the point. Read my earlier posts if you want to understand how I feel the word is used in inner cities now. Not SUPPOSED to be used but IS used. It's easily observable if you live in these areas. I'm tiring of debating the nature of reality here, though. People can deny that it is accepted that poc use the word openly in metro areas if they want.So what is your point? That black people should not complain because it won't do anything? That seems kinda weird when you say you don't say it to avoid conflict.
Okay but not for non-black folks.
??? Do you have trouble looking at things in context?Pretending not to know that gatekeeping colloquially has a negative connotation on Era of all places is indeed a strategy.
Yes it has, that's the point. Look at all the examples in this thread. Take a walk outside. Non-black poc use the word a lot, period.
Thank youuuuuuu!Also the same woman who was like where is our black panther. What about us Latinos where is ours? But then is all " my dads Afro Latino". So is you, or is you not a Nigga girl? Make it make sense. That's clear as day anti blackness. And from a lead from a popular show that stemmed from a popular telenovela and you're Carmen San Diego? And you're worried about y'all turn and you are the turn? Girl... lol sis make it make sense?? I refuse to make excuses for her. She's basic