I mean, it is silly that you're forced to make the change if you played it differently and the "Grow Up" is a poor title choice, but putting malicious intent and an anti-LGBTQ+ label on it seems a bit hot-headed given that the game is generally open to different types of relationships and sexual roles.
Ubisoft: You can play as a lesbian
Ubisoft: Except also fuck you
This is like. the definition of homophobia and spitting on LGBT+ fans