Yeah, happy coincidence is the most likely scenario.
Yea I had to unfollow a couple blogs because they started to reblog a lot of anti-ace posts :(I hang around Tumblr and every year during pride month without fail there's a massive increase in acephobia. Now, there always is acephobia happening all the time on there (I've seen a lot of really nasty things that I would rather forget), but during pride month it really brings out the worst of them. :/
Also, hello everyone. o/
I'd be lying if I said I never felt uncomfortable or unwelcome to participate in the larger LGBT+ community largely in part to the amount of hate I see against aces. It also doesn't help that I'm pretty asocial and whenever I see that stuff it just makes me want to slump further into solitude.
Yea I do that too. I have a small amount of friends but I haven't come out to any of them yet.
If it makes you feel any better, for whatever the reason, I came out to my bestie last. It's not always easy, but you might want to consider it. If you don't, even though it's bullshit and completely unfair, they might eventually start labeling you as something you are not, which will weigh down on you due to the double lie; the lie of omission, and the lie by either saying you are what they say, or denying it yet still being queer in some way. Yes, I know the feeling, yes it is not fair, and yes it sucks, but hang in there and best of luck.Yea I do that too. I have a small amount of friends but I haven't come out to any of them yet.
Thanks :)If it makes you feel any better, for whatever the reason, I came out to my bestie last. It's not always easy, but you might want to consider it. If you don't, even though it's bullshit and completely unfair, they might eventually start labeling you as something you are not, which will weigh down on you due to the double lie; the lie of omission, and the lie by either saying you are what they say, or denying it yet still being queer in some way. Yes, I know the feeling, yes it is not fair, and yes it sucks, but hang in there and best of luck.
Yeah, had the retweet that one. Another day of pride month, another day of dealing with lots of queer-initiated acephobia and erasure. This is part of the reason I am big on pride month though, I wanna educate people, I want to show queer youth that if they are ace, it's okay and they can and should just be themselves. We are not broken, we are valid, and yes, (if we choose to identify as such as everyone is different and I respect that) we are queer.
Asexual relationships? In my Assassin's Creed game? It's more likely than you think.
Seriously though, even if I'm not interested in Assassin's Creed, it's really nice to see Ubisoft be so inclusive.
Asexual relationships? In my Assassin's Creed game? It's more likely than you think.
Seriously though, even if I'm not interested in Assassin's Creed, it's really nice to see Ubisoft be so inclusive.
On second glance from the article, it does seem like it is representing asexuality as just choosing not to get into relationships. Darn.I thought when they mentioned asexual they meant if you didn't want to romance anyone at all.
It's probably because I was tired but when I first read it I interpreted it as still being able to have relationships. Reading it again though that doesn't seem to be the case.We're not forcing you to do something you don't want to do," she said. "So if you're somebody who's asexual, you don't have to engage in something like this."
How can they be so close and yet so farI thought when they mentioned asexual they meant if you didn't want to romance anyone at all.
Yea I guess I got excited over nothing. Oh well...Yeah... this game doesn't get any points for ace representation. I don't know if any games do honestly.
This makes me even more upset about Riverdale.It's okay Euphony , it happens. I am in no rush for us to get real representation in vidya, I just hope that when it does happen, it gets done well. We've been lucky with comics at least with how well Jughead Jones was portrayed...
When Archie says that Jughead is not a normal guy, it just made my heart hurt, because I've been there, and I know how awful it feels like. They absolutely nailed this feeling many aces feel.
They also nailed the scene where Jughead accidentally led Sabrina the burger sales flyer girl on, and explaining that he just doesn't like people that way.
Jughead spoiled me. I want to see excellent representation like this in gaming one day.
Thinking out loud
I honestly wish I had an Asexual girlfriend who I could cuddle and not have sex with.
That would be my ideal wish. but such a thing is highly unlikely.
Hi guys! I hope it's not an invasive or harmful question, but is it possible to start shifting towards the assexual and a-romantic spectrum after some sort of trauma? I've always considered myself a bissexual female who particularly enjoyed romance and sex but after some traumatic experiences I feel that I've been disconnecting more and more with that side and these things (sex and love, mostly) don't really feel "normal" to me anymore.
Depends on what you mean.
What about masturbation frequency?Depends on what you mean.
As a whole my asexuality has not made a huge impact on my life other than me turning down certain people because I already could tell that there would have been incompatibility in the bedroom. I don't feel sexual attraction so I don't know if thoughts like that are very invasive or not. Sexual marketing does not work on me. Forced relationship plotlines in shows and movies are tiring and are nothing but timewasters in my eyes unless the relationship becomes central to the storytelling instead of fluff bait.
There's the stereotype that asexuals "get more things done" because they are thinking about sex less often, but most of my thoughts are about food and video games so ehhh...?
That's tied to your libido and unrelated to your attraction to people.
I was wondering about that. I thought I heard that there were people with very little to no sex drive, which may or may not be in addition to not really feeling attraction to others either. Would those people be considered asexuals?That's tied to your libido and unrelated to your attraction to people.