I feel you, and agree.
I love Barret as a concept. He's a loving father, and passionate about protecting the planet, but the actual portrayal of his character is embarrassing. It's like non-black writers can't wrap their heads around writing a black man as...just a man. Like, we come in all different shapes, sizes, temperaments, intellects, and personality traits. It's almost like we're...individuals, and not a monolith. Crazy, I know!
It'd be nice if black people (and people of color in general), were portrayed with the level of variety and complexity as white men in entertainment media. Considering that the FFVII Remake took a lot of elements and reinterpreted them, nothing would have been lost reinterpreting Barret, even if you still kept him a large, muscular Black man. I would have been just as happy if he was a Dennis Haysbert or Lance Reddick in terms of performance if you still wanted him to be authoritative and stern. The loud, yelling, angry Black man is a trope I'm fucking sick and tired of.
I've had to cringe inwardly at Barret's portrayal in the Final Fantasy universe since 1997. I'm ready to put that shit to rest, and I had hopes prior to its reveal that an FFVII Remake if it were to happen would address it. Naive thinking, I know.
I remember my roommate walking into the room while I was playing FFVII Remake, and there was a scene where Barret was, doing his thing, and she just started laughing hysterically and was like, "What the fuck? That shit is racist!" She's white, and when I say I was embarrassed to even keep playing... I just had to shake my head and was like, "I know, dude. I know." And we got on a whole discussion about how fucked up Barret's portrayal was. She'd never seen or heard of FFVII (she's a young'un), so she was just floored by how this game was so over the top with his portrayal, especially in contrast to how the other characters in his scenes were acting. He's embarrassing. I'm sorry, but Barret Wallace is a fucking embarrassing as fuck character, and I don't need to have non-black people telling me how totally cool and awesome and full of depth he has, because his portrayal fucking sucks.