I used to want to like anime... but over this past decade, anime fans have really turned me away from it completely.
Yep! They out here talking about relationships, fan service, sempai, waifus and all that jazz 24/7. It's straight up live action soap opera in anime form. Soap operas are the worst form of modern day television yet somehow in anime form these people are eating it all up. I think its even more boring in anime form to be honest. Days of our lives tier anime really messed things up. I watched a lot of anime and people will get roasted if they are watching the days of our lives type of anime because it is boring and done better in live action form.
Live action television surpassed a lot of anime out there already either way. That is what most people should have moved onto by now with all these huge fantasy big budget hbo, netflix, hulu, etc shows. Huge cinematic universes we got going on now should be the main course meal for content. All of them have tons of fans, are in english and you can have discussions about them in real life with a lot more people. My main course meal of content is always deep in reality or live action shows. I will cherry pick only the best anime as something I will watch or read on the side. I mean only the best, nostalgic, cult classics, etc.
My first anime was original dragon ball before dragonball z and cartoon network toonami became a thing.
There is a difference between watching or reading a few anime/manga a year and only watching and reading anime and manga. How can one grow if all the content they absorb comes from one place? The place is not only outside of reality but outside ones country and outside ones age group on many occasions.