It's literally not stealing though. Unless tipping is a legal requirement that I'm unaware of. You can use sensationalist language, but the reality is that it's not.
And yes I used race to make clear that there are a lot of impoverished and marginalised people besides waiters. Ignoring that and directing the vitriol that you should be directing at the employers and your legislators at them is misguided at best, and certainly very privileged.
Your race comment is solely to try to bring another topic into the discussion. Race wasn't a part of this discussion and isn't required at all to discuss the topic at hand. Your just trying to make a tangential point.
Ok, maybe not technically stealing, but good for you for justifying it.That's ridiculous. You're paying in the first place and they're getting paid whatever their wage is. How can you call that stealing? Silly.
And 90% of their salary comes from tips. The moment you walk in the door to a restaurant in the U.S. you have a social contract to pay the server for their service. If you don't pay then you have not paid for the service they have provided you even though you accepted said service knowing you should pay (since they aren't paid by the establishment, and the cost of their work isn't rolled into your bill already).
YOU RECIEVED A SERVICE, YOU DIDNT PAY FOR IT. YOUR A ASSHOLE REGARDLESS HOW YOU WANT TO JUSTIFY IT.