A bit off topic but I'm really really really struggling difficulty wise with this game which is strange as I've beaten DS, DSIII and BB a few years ago.
Can anyone recommend the perfect "easy mode" starting class, item and build. Many thanks.
Its much easier starting as a royal since most things in the game have a magic weakness.
That won't make the game "easy mode" but it will help a lot in the first few stages.
The game isn't that hard, but hanging out in the OT those struggling with the game (that didn't in dark souls etc) tend to make the same few mistakes, usually trying to go "sword and board" with very heavy armor.
The "fat roll" in this game when you are wearing heavy armor isn't a viable build, the game is telling you that you are too heavy and need to drop weight.
You don't HAVE to go mage/hybrid with a bunch of spells but the game is built for it and you should have at least a couple of basic spells or miracles.
Pay close attention to enemy weaknesses. A lot of people have trouble with the skeletons in world 4 because they don't realize those things are weak to blunt weapons and fire weapons. You have a weapon that's both, world 4 isn't a problem. The same is true for the enemies in world 2, except switch "blunt and fire" for "magic and piercing"
Don't rush straight into 1-2 after you beat the phalanx. Take some time to explore 2-1, 3-1, 4-1, and 5-1. All of them have special weapons and gear found early in the stage that make the game much easier.
Picking up a bow to "pull" enemies toward you to break up mobs or snipe from range is also recommended.