fly them to you breh
but you're right the chances of you getting some bombshell who lives there is rare, unless you're in a major metropolitan area
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but you're right the chances of you getting some bombshell who lives there is rare, unless you're in a major metropolitan area
Silly OP.
You could've used all that cash and bought an Oculus Rift and... uh... "supplemental controllers" instead.
You could've used all that cash and bought an Oculus Rift and... uh... "supplemental controllers" instead.
Maybe I'm just hot idk. Haven't used it in a couple years, in a relationship currently.
Same here, did it at 23 if I remember right.
Not too bad for me, the escort was super nice, but I still couldn't get completely comfortable. Never went back.
If I had a "spot" near me, I'd partake in that sort of thing more often though
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Thats not addiction if you did it over the course of 3 years. Now if you did that in a space of a few days...yeah you probably might be right. People who struggle with addictiont tend to have their lives revolve around satisfying that addiction even at the cost of more important things like financial stability, health, relationships with friends and family etc.
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Late last year my friend visited me in Thailand. It was his first time in the country. I took him to a gogo bar. He enjoyed himself and left with a nice looking lady.
Fast forward to today and he is in Thailand for the 3rd time in 8 months, going to gogos every night while in the country. He sends me messages like "ooh found the hottest gogo girl last night."He wants to move to Thailand next year. I feel like I created a monster.
OP you are fine, it doesn't seem like an addiction, it's just something to do a few times per year for you. Flying across the world multiple times in one year solely to fuck new hookers every night is an addiction. Possibly moving to a new country just for the hookers is an addiction.
Fast forward to today and he is in Thailand for the 3rd time in 8 months, going to gogos every night while in the country. He sends me messages like "ooh found the hottest gogo girl last night."He wants to move to Thailand next year. I feel like I created a monster.
OP you are fine, it doesn't seem like an addiction, it's just something to do a few times per year for you. Flying across the world multiple times in one year solely to fuck new hookers every night is an addiction. Possibly moving to a new country just for the hookers is an addiction.
I'm in the (South)western USA and I hire escorts all the time. They look exactly like their pics and are not cops.
There are ways.
Had a friend in LA who did it. I got dragged to a strip club where he disappeared, came back, and told me he paid $300. He then later caught feelings, and it ended terribly for him. The unfortunate thing is, if he took the time to actually work on himself he wouldn't have to pay. I dont know your financial situation, so I dont knownif your wallet is taking a hit, but why do you feel you can't just do it without paying?
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Every man pays for sex whether he realizes it or not. Prostitutes are just upfront and get rid of the games.
With that said OP, if you're feeling like its an addiction. STOP. Trust me when I say this will lead you down a dark, shitty path.
The amount of money I spent on girls from Seeking Arrangements is sad. I've stopped, but it was definitely an additction Im glad I kicked.
With that said OP, if you're feeling like its an addiction. STOP. Trust me when I say this will lead you down a dark, shitty path.
The amount of money I spent on girls from Seeking Arrangements is sad. I've stopped, but it was definitely an additction Im glad I kicked.
Meh, I mean tinder works too. I'm sure it's convenient, and I'm not judging you. But would you agree sex is so much better when she sctually wants sex as opposed to just the cash?
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My partner and I did it once to treat ourselves. We found someone that appealed to both of our tastes and we both got what we wanted from him, so overall it was a pretty good experience. We might do it again, but at that price it's certainly not something we're ever going to do on a regular basis.
Well, that's on you OP. You seem like a good guy, I won't judge you, but it sounds like you aren't getting what you want. Maybe I'm naive, too idealistic, etc, but the fact you mentioned your ex a few times might have more to it.
I broke up with a girlfriend of almost 3 years in April and still haven't gotten over it. I have been in two positions since where sex could have come easily but I turned it down. Sometimes you want what you've had.
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There are subreddits that would point you in the right direction. You have to go through a good amount of vetting I believe before an escort will accept an appointment from you.
Hell nah. No offense to anyone that has but I would feel absolutely pathetic paying for sex when it's so easy getting some for free
A friend of mine told me he did it once and he instantly regret it and still does to this day.
I would personally never ever do this, but OP, outside of any moral implications or opinions, you sound like you're a bit empty. It also sounds dangerous to do it that often. I would reconsider your lifestyle for those two reasons alone.
I would personally never ever do this, but OP, outside of any moral implications or opinions, you sound like you're a bit empty. It also sounds dangerous to do it that often. I would reconsider your lifestyle for those two reasons alone.
Don't be too hard on yourself OP. Sometimes people need sex, and allow me to armchair psychology here, sounds more like you miss having a relationship, and just sex isn't enough for you anymore.
It's a hobby for some but that's cause they make enough money to be able to afford it.
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It's a hobby for some but that's cause they make enough money to be able to afford it.
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We all pay for it. Cash is just the path of least resistance.
And once when I was in Peru when I was in the Navy.
And once when I was in Peru when I was in the Navy.
Maybe if it were regulated and it was 100% consensual and I felt there was no chance I would ever feel like I somehow contributed to the human trafficking industry.
So probably not, no.
So probably not, no.
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