Yeah, all my closer friends, who have always been Playstation and Nintendo fans, are leaning their interest toward Xbox Series X over PS5 for this next generation of consoles, and I'm not surprised at all; cause I'm too.
We all agree Microsoft is weaker in term of exclusives at the moment, especially at launch, but the hardware options they've come up with (The most powerful console), the deals & huge saving factors offered by the Gamepass, and finally, the possible appealing in variety of games down in the future thanks to the recent studios acquisition, have made us being undecided on where to go directly. Also, Sony's approach and missed communication regarding certain features like transferring saving etc, has not helped one bit.
Personally, I may end up buying PS5 first cause in my case it will be the cheaper next gen console to buy with the digital edition option, plus me having tons of digital games in my PS4 backlog to revisit on PS5; besides, I definitely wanna play some of the Sony exclusives like Demon Souls, Gran Turismo 7, Rachet, Spiderman, etc. In addition, I'm looking forward to try out the DualSense controller features as well as the Tempest Engine 3D audio.
In the end, I'm pretty sure Xbox Series X will be my first Xbox console ever and main console to play with along Gamepass.