This is basically where I stand. Having good pronoun options that cover those who are non-binary is the ideal route. But given that Animal Crossing doesn't really use your pronouns that often anyway, I can respect this decision over the typical "Are you a boy or a girl" question.While asking your pronouns would be best, I'd much rather have the game be "genderless" where you can change your appearance at any time and wear anything, than have a binary choice at the start of the game which cannot be changed later.
Robust pronoun options > No stated gender > "Are you a boy or a girl"