I grew up in a large pretty tight nit hispanic family. Growing up we would occasionally go on big group vacations (like 20-30 people total). Now that I'm an adult (37 years old) and married and have 2 kids I haven't gone on the last couple of trips.
The next big trip is a cruise in the summer of 2021 which is being planned by one of my cousins. My mom and sisters are putting major guilt trip pressure for me to go on the next one. My mom just called me and was getting choked up about how I don't want to go on Vacations with the family anymore.
Am I wrong? It's not a money thing, I can easily afford it. I just like doing my own thing. I enjoy the planning part of my vacations. I don't like waiting for people. Some of my cousin's are more party people and I'm more of the sight seeing and history type. With two young kids (ages 6 and 8), I like having the flexibility that traveling with just the 4 of us affords. For example we went to Disney World last summer and when we felt like we needed a nap or pool break we took it. We didn't have to let anyone know. The last two vacations I did with just my wife and kids and it was great.
The next big trip is a cruise in the summer of 2021 which is being planned by one of my cousins. My mom and sisters are putting major guilt trip pressure for me to go on the next one. My mom just called me and was getting choked up about how I don't want to go on Vacations with the family anymore.
Am I wrong? It's not a money thing, I can easily afford it. I just like doing my own thing. I enjoy the planning part of my vacations. I don't like waiting for people. Some of my cousin's are more party people and I'm more of the sight seeing and history type. With two young kids (ages 6 and 8), I like having the flexibility that traveling with just the 4 of us affords. For example we went to Disney World last summer and when we felt like we needed a nap or pool break we took it. We didn't have to let anyone know. The last two vacations I did with just my wife and kids and it was great.