Didn't i just say that on the previous page? Hot damn I was right
Sorry to say this op but it sound like she's still fucking that guy brains out still.
Do you call a divorce lawyer man she's a lying to you brotherWell I just confronted her.
She says she just changed the names for fun and she isn't talking to him. Not sure how to proceed from here.
First thing, when your partner cheats on you with someone, them asking to stay friends with that person afterwards is a BIG FUCKING NO.
Could probably lock the thread after this, tbhYea. Cmon. How much of a doormat are you?
Ready for some medicine? It's not going to taste good. You ready? Here it comes. Open wide:
No one respects a doormat. They use them. Your wife has zero respect for you. Because you have zero respect for yourself.
Yes she's still fucking him. Or someone else. Now the question is do you have enough of a sense of self worth to let her kick rocks and move on with your life or would you prefer to live a lie?
Don't be so afraid to be alone that you tolerate such disrespect.
so harsh lolYea. Cmon. How much of a doormat are you?
Ready for some medicine? It's not going to taste good. You ready? Here it comes. Open wide:
No one respects a doormat. They use them. Your wife has zero respect for you. Because you have zero respect for yourself.
Yes she's still fucking him. Or someone else. Now the question is do you have enough of a sense of self worth to let her kick rocks and move on with your life or would you prefer to live a lie?
Don't be so afraid to be alone that you tolerate such disrespect.
...last fall my wife had an affair. She didn't hide it from me which in a way made the whole thing worse.
She agreed but begged me to permit them to stay friends. I agreed...
The very next day, she changed all of the names of all of her contacts to fake names.
Yeah, this whole situation is depressing.Sad story to read man. She's definitely not telling the truth and then trying to reflect back at you. No one changes the names in a phone for fun. No one.
Ready for some medicine? It's not going to taste good. You ready? Here it comes. Open wide:
Jesus. Not that what you wrote isn't true but the poor guy is disabled and in really poor health. Go a little easy on him.
Everything is harder when you're sick. I'm sorry, OP. If you're dependent on her for financial help or caregiving, this is just an incredibly shitty situation.
Both.
Going out with my best buddy for beers, gonna get his perspective on the situation