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A good friend might lose his job because he was caught motioning for me to look at a woman at work, which made her uncomfortable
- Thread starter BlackFyre
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"she's a complete 10" yeah OP i trust your opinions on workplace harassment
also i came here to lazily drive-by post but the latest posts are making me feel like this guy got dragged in an amazing fashion and now i have to read the entire thread
also i came here to lazily drive-by post but the latest posts are making me feel like this guy got dragged in an amazing fashion and now i have to read the entire thread
So er OP do you...still want to claim that you're not misogynistic or would you like to retract that statement?
I think in this context that neither OP or his friends think what they did was wrong.
Also reason why I said it was a bad idea as it could seem like he's hounding her when he has previously made her feel uncomfortable and HR pretty much dealt with it.
Just a head's up, right click and select save link as rather than clicking on the number to save a link. If it has the page number, the link will only work if you share the same posts per pages
'Nice going dude, she saw you'
Yeah the problem was that she caught him 😒 not that a new colleague was made uncomfortable.
Yeah the problem was that she caught him 😒 not that a new colleague was made uncomfortable.
Seems so. The link contains a post id, with custom page layouts and the fact that 50ppp is for peasants, hopefully links can latch to post instead of page in the future.
Too bad this forum updates suck and doesn't take you direct to the post in reference on mobile with these links.
It not twisted. He got caught doing textbook sexual harassment. You should not be defending him to anyone. Don't be blaming your co workers for wondering if the work with a creeper. He is the one that changed the work dynamic, not them.
It is justice. He and you are getting a taste of how uncomfortable he made the lady. Learn from it and change, or find a new job.
accusations as in more women coming forward or about this particular incident?
It's an open secret that women are secretly trying to rebuild the Library of Alexandria and will not stop until it becomes the greatest library in the world. I thought this would be obvious. :P
Boy am I glad I came back into this thread lol
I'm guessing OP isn't.
Are you on firefox? They were bugging out for me to. They work on Chrome though =/
Edit: wait its because my page setting? Oh come on 50 ppp is the inferior setting!
:P
Gonna go devil's advocate on this one: I feel this is a tad disingenuous. Defending himself from the accusation that he wanted to call his colleague a bitch, he said he has never called a woman that before; it's fair to think this was centered around a more direct, malicious, gendered version of that, and not so much the impersonal, snarky version he threw out in that post. I mean, that was basically another take on "bye, bitch," which I don't think most people would log into instances you've called a woman that word.
Plus...the snark was warranted, considering it was directed at a horrible racist person.
Now, this is all rather charitable. Has the OP snarkily called men that? Does a man throwing that word in a woman's direction ever not have gendered connotations? Has the OP given any reason to believe that the word 'bitch' is super stigmatized in his head?
Probably not, probably not, and that last one is a straight up no. But still. In the end, the OP's point was that the accusation was unfair, and I don't think the post contradicts that.
Let me now make a recommendation to the OP: come in, own up to your broish blindspots, and try to look at the situation you described in your OP through a different lens. Like I just did for you.
that quote was a reply to OP saying this
its more just pointing out him saying that, and then challenging people to prove him wrong, literally telling people to look through his post history
Damn OP on suicide watch tonight. Shoulda stopped after your third post, now your gonna feel terrible about yourself for the next month. Eesh.
Resetera 1.0 used to let you create universal post links by copying the link from the post number and post-per-page specific post links (meaning a link created by a user with 120 posts per page will only properly work for another user with 120 posts per page, for everyone else it will take them to the wrong post) by copying the link on the post timestamp. Resetera 2.0 creates post-per-page specific links for both now.
You have to manually edit your links.
Fixing it for now is a manual process. So get the post-per-page specific links that Resetera 2.0 now gives and then delete everything from the "/threads" until the "/post-" and replace it with "/posts/" to create a universal direct link to the post.
So
https://www.resetera.com/threads/a-...ch-made-her-uncomfortable.86916/post-15954560
becomes
https://www.resetera.com/posts/15954560
See the edited posts in the quotes for examples
Read his last response. He supposedly already knows this but his concern all along is some accusations against his friend. If that was truly the OPs intent I would think that would be an important piece of information we should know. So I'd like to know exactly what these concerning accusations are.
