We work in a small office. This new girl walks in to get Coffee at the cafeteria. She's a complete 10. He motions to me to look at her. She catches him doing it.
Seemed uncomfortable and went about her business to get the coffee.
My friend got embarrassed and I muttered to him "nice going dude, she saw you"
This is all kinds of problematic so I want to point out a couple of things, not to be mean, but because perhaps you're not aware of them.
1. You, not your friend, are stating a girl is "a complete 10". Don't you think that turning a human being into something on a 1-10 rating scale of how physically appealing their body is...is a bit objectifying and gross? Imagine if you had left that part out, and just said that a new girl walked in, and your friend gestures to get you to look at her because she's physically attractive. Would that have significantly changed the story? Does being a 10 rather than a 9.5 or an 8 make it different somehow, for whatever those numbers mean?
2. Your response is "nice going dude, she saw you" -- are you suggesting the problem with what your friend did was that he got caught, rather than that he was trying to get someone to ogle someone else in an office environment? That's not good either.
3. The "rape" thing randomly put later in your post seems 110% out of line with the facts you gave. Someone pointing out an attractive person in a small work environment is creepy, it made someone uncomfortable, and HR addressed it. Who used the word rape?
