I could imagine many countries drag this down because most of them aren't exactly developed democratic nations. Goes to show the world at large is still underdeveloped in various areas.
These are bad, the one about a third finding it acceptable to beat a wife is shocking, to be honest.
Please correct me if I'm mistaken but I don't understand why it's necessary to frame these findings in a manner that makes them seem worse than they already are. Feels a bit dishonest and that's not helpful to the cause.
Saying 90% of people have some bias against women, while true, puts the emphasis on a meta-statistic of biases with varying degrees of severity, rather than putting it on the most urgent ones.
Certainly all biases against women are unwarranted but beating a wife and having a prejudiced political opinion are not similar enough that they should be bundled together.
Just my opinion - as a man - and I welcome criticism.
If you knew how I had to adjust my behavior constantly as I go about my day due to bias, you honestly wouldn't be saying this. I've actually taught myself to appear dumber when interacting with men so as not to intimidate anyone into actual aggression. I have to act a certain way or there will be consequences. This is due to a mix of reality and my own upbringing. Women are dumber, have to be nice no matter what, can't have desire, and can't say no without dancing around it so as not to piss anyone off.
Microaggressions stack up.
These are bad, the one about a third finding it acceptable to beat a wife is shocking, to be honest.
Please correct me if I'm mistaken but I don't understand why it's necessary to frame these findings in a manner that makes them seem worse than they already are. Feels a bit dishonest and that's not helpful to the cause.
Saying 90% of people have some bias against women, while true, puts the emphasis on a meta-statistic of biases with varying degrees of severity, rather than putting it on the most urgent ones.
Certainly all biases against women are unwarranted but beating a wife and having a prejudiced political opinion are not similar enough that they should be bundled together.
Just my opinion - as a man - and I welcome criticism.
It's funny because I believe the exact opposite. How many wars would have been avoided if the respective leaders didn't let their testosterone dictate their decisions?It found that almost half of people feel men are superior political leaders and more than 40% believe men make better business executives.
I screamed "WHAT!" in real life reading this line. :SAlmost a third of men and women think it's acceptable for a man to beat his wife.
If you knew how I had to adjust my behavior constantly as I go about my day due to bias, you honestly wouldn't be saying this. I've actually taught myself to appear dumber when interacting with men so as not to intimidate anyone into actual aggression. I have to act a certain way or there will be consequences. This is due to a mix of reality and my own upbringing. Women are dumber, have to be nice no matter what, can't have desire, and can't say no without dancing around it so as not to piss anyone off.
Microaggressions stack up.
It's funny because I believe the exact opposite. How many wars would have been avoided if the respective leaders didn't let their testosterone dictate their decisions?
I screamed "WHAT!" in real life reading this line. :S
Even worse, I've met women that they thought they deserved to be beaten :sHow the fuck do 30% of people think it's okay to beat their wives?
Even worse, I've met women that they thought they deserved to be beaten :s
Even worse, I've met women that they thought they deserved to be beaten :s
This is really fucked.I know a woman who said her MOTHER deserved to be beaten by her father.
But she's 70+ and a really bigoted, sad person.
Because "having a prejudiced political opinion" is still really bad, dude. Wife-beating is easier to get outraged about in the immediate, but discriminating against women in politics (or business, industries, school, science, etc.) is incredibly insidious and far more difficult to combat. This bias leads to women being less likely to not only reach positions of power in society, but also to make them less likely to seek it out to begin with (and easier for men to just shrug and say "oh, I guess women just aren't typically interested in politics/tech/science/etc., must be biology!" -- James Damore, anyone).Certainly all biases against women are unwarranted but beating a wife and having a prejudiced political opinion are not similar enough that they should be bundled together.
Just my opinion - as a man - and I welcome criticism.
They're grouped together because these are all biases that women have to face every day of our lives. You can't act like "They're all unwarranted" while essentially arguing that we shouldn't talk about issues that don't meet your personal level of severity. Or that by talking about these issues at the same time, that people are being dishonest and "Not helpful to the cause."
There seriously is not a faster way for someone to make me roll my eyes but to be completely unaffected by the issues at hand while chastising others for not talking about the issues in the way that you like.
Because "having a prejudiced political opinion" is still really bad, dude. Wife-beating is easier to get outraged about in the immediate, but discriminating against women in politics (or business, industries, school, science, etc.) is incredibly insidious and far more difficult to combat. This bias leads to women being less likely to not only reach positions of power in society, but also to make them less likely to seek it out to begin with (and easier for men to just shrug and say "oh, I guess women just aren't typically interested in politics/tech/science/etc., must be biology!" -- James Damore, anyone).
And this all leads to a world that continues to be ruled by men, for men.... is it any surprise, then, that such a male-dominated world would also have widespread misogyny, including potentially a third of its population thinking that men can control their wives and even beat them?
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Oh, they are. Won't stop a significant amount of (male) users from bitching that we aren't "fun", though.Addressing the hidden content: why are such posts not dealt with more severely?
Why the fuck does their opinion matter?Oh, they are. Won't stop a significant amount of (male) users from bitching that we aren't "fun", though.
...What's with the tone? Anyway, I'm just explaining how harmful the more insidious and subtle sexism can be compared to the "overt" one, that's all.
Almost a third of men and women think it's acceptable for a man to beat his wife.
More people than that think it's acceptable to beat their children. World has a long fucking way to go. The only countries in this list that have successfully managed to mitigate some biases (not enough) are the democratic, developed nations. Tracks with what we know about even our own country too. US has a 50% bias rate, which tracks with what we know about how people vote too.How the fuck do 30% of people think it's okay to beat their wives?
The data in this survey backs up exactly what you are saying.What's worst is that there are women who are equally just as misogynist as toxic men. Women who literally hate other women. It's disgusting and honestly, they are the reason we won't even progress. Men will always have women who will ride for their shitty views and it is what it is. The biological warfare on your own sex is something so amazing to continue to watch
The tone is to suggest that people bitching about how it's not "fun" to ban others for being sexist maybe shouldn't be welcome on this forum....What's with the tone? Anyway, I'm just explaining how harmful the more insidious and subtle sexism can be compared to the "overt" one, that's all.
Based off of the last anonymous confession thread, we have several extreme misogynists on here, especially if the women are part of a marginalized ethnic or religious group.So chances are we have secret women beaters on ERA. Damn, I had hoped for better.
Based off of the last anonymous confession thread, we have several extreme misogynists on here, especially if the women are part of a marginalized ethnic or religious group.
Yeah, I think we have a very Western bias here. The world is way more than the US and Western Europe. And even in places with feminist movements, there is still lots of work to be done.I mean, if it's a global survey... Yes, humanity as a whole is filled with backwards, swamp people attributes and ideas. Cretinous really.
The tone is to suggest that people bitching about how it's not "fun" to ban others for being sexist maybe shouldn't be welcome on this forum.
Because "having a prejudiced political opinion" is still really bad, dude. Wife-beating is easier to get outraged about in the immediate, but discriminating against women in politics (or business, industries, school, science, etc.) is incredibly insidious and far more difficult to combat. This bias leads to women being less likely to not only reach positions of power in society, but also to make them less likely to seek it out to begin with (and easier for men to just shrug and say "oh, I guess women just aren't typically interested in politics/tech/science/etc., must be biology!" -- James Damore, anyone).
And this all leads to a world that continues to be ruled by men, for men.... is it any surprise, then, that such a male-dominated world would also have widespread misogyny, including potentially a third of its population thinking that men can control their wives and even beat them?
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Probably none. Wars aren't caused by testosterone they're caused by economics and ideology.
... because the entire point Morrigan was making is the frequency of these opinions and their accumulated effect on making women feeling unwelcome, and banning them after the fact does not erase these posts retroactively? Have you lost the plot? This is the same "just ignore the bigots" shitty advice minorities face constantly.
You think? Wow, you cracked the code, congratulations!
Mansplaining is part of the problem.
This is a naive view. History has some violent female leaders. It's a humanity issue.I very strongly disagree that male agression and toxicity doesn't play a huge part in politics, international relations and, yes, ideology, but let's leave it at that so as to not derail the thread.
This is a naive view. History has some violent female leaders. It's a humanity issue.
The tone is to suggest that people bitching about how it's not "fun" to ban others for being sexist maybe shouldn't be welcome on this forum.
with regards the hidden content (and I know the the thread is now locked) but why was this thread allowed to stay open https://www.resetera.com/threads/so-serious-question-how-attractive-is-adam-driver.171193/
Surely if it was the other way round and "boys club culture" it would be locked down and people banned.
Yes... she's perfectly aware it shouldn't be welcome or acceptable, having to spend every day being exposed to sexists posts as a woman. She was explaining what an uphill battle is to moderate this forum, particularly as a woman. We've had female staff trolled and laughed at for trying to clamp down on such behaviour, but that doesn't mean we're going to stop. It just means this isn't something that will be fixed overnight. The issue is a societal one, and it's reflected in the behaviour here. Even if many posters here see themselves as progressive, they blind to their biases and prejudices.
You say you're not mansplaining, but yeah, your behaviour was aggressive and condescending. She's fully aware of how bad that all is, she has to work to combat it daily despite the behaviour specifically targeting her as a woman.That makes it doubly tiring, but she still does it. So please be mindful of that.
Because it's not the same, in the same way punching up in a playful manner isn't the same as casual bigotry. The difference between the power that women and men hold even today is astronomically different, and that doesn't even begin to dig into the way women have historically been commodified, oppressed and controlled by men. Context will always matter.
This is a naive view. History has some violent female leaders. It's a humanity issue.
How is asking for people to be banned for minor expressions of sexism in order to avoid major ones from happening in the first place shitty advice and/or mansplaining?
This is a naive view. History has some violent female leaders. It's a humanity issue.