For me it hasn´t lived up to any potential. I am not interested in the handheld mode at all, the hardware was already underpowered at launch and it shows in many games, even the first party games have compromises at every corner to maintain their performance.
the Nintendo games were mostly a disappointment too, didn´t really like BotW, Arms was fun for 2 weeks, Splatoon 2 was Splatoon 1 but badder, Odyssey was fun for an hour, after that it became old, Octopath was bad, Astral Chain not exactly what i wanted from Platinum, Fire Emblem like a premium mobile game with its small maps and so on. i am not into Pokemon or Animal Crossing so there is not much else left.
third party software doesn´t interest me because it is mostly ports of games i´ve already played or time exclusive indies that come to the other consoles sooner or later. things like Katana Zero are total exceptions.
the joycons are terrible to hold and play with and the drift makes you wonder why they are charging premium for such cheaply made hardware. the pricing of the whole device and accessoires is really expensive too, Nintendo is like the Apple of gaming nowadays.
the Pro Controller has also a really awful Dpad and the left stick grinds on the plastic because it travels too far in any direction. it feels also cheaply made and the best thing about it is the battery.
Wifi is a complete joke with this device, you basically have to use a ethernet adapter and that is ridiculous for an internet enabled device in the end of the 2010s.
Nintendo Online...is a joke too.
the baddest thing is that there is nothing more predictable than Nintendo, you know exactly what you get and if those games turn out not so great for someone you are basically stuck with a device that has no real use.
don´t get me wrong, cool when people love this thing and i can really understand it, especially with children it is surely
a whole different experience for example.i loved my NES and SNES as a kid but Nintendo was not my thing since the N64, i thought i try it again 20 years later and nope, not for me anymore.
for me it is a premium dust catcher and i am debating about selling it in the next few weeks because i haven´t played with it for a few months again.